Thursday, June 28, 2012

It's for the Young Gay Men

Young Filipino Gay Men are proud of their sexuality

Most of my dearest friends in their 40's do not agree with marriage equality. My beloved friends grew up in the 70's and 80's and the gay life then was really different. Think of Dolphy's Pacifica Falayfay or Roderick Paulate's Petrang Kabayo. And that will give you an idea on how society viewed the Filipino gay man. That was the world back then. And I certainly understood why someone from that era would never dare to demand for equal treatment.

Roderick Paulate's gay movie characters
represented how society accepted
the gay men in the 80's

Fast forward to 2000. Gay Men are connected to the internet. More and more developed countries are accepting Gay Marriage. Young gay men now have a bigger sense of freedom. They are now open to be in a relationship with each other rather than settle with a "commercial" boy toy. They join pride marches. Gay Lovers dare to hold each other's hands at the mall (and they even dare to kill each other for love).

With these accelerating changes here's the inevitable truth. The future of equality belongs to these young men who think they deserve equal treatment. And not to those who have used up half of their lifetime accepting homophobia as a rule of life.

Monday, June 25, 2012


My apologies to my dear readers. There has been low frequency of blog posts from me. You see I am busy with this very sexy reality show. And my contract with TV5 forbids me to post anything about the project.

This blog will be active as soon as I finish shooting the reality show and that will be about a month from now.

For the meantime, you can follow me on twitter: @lexbonife

Friday, June 15, 2012

Bakit May Bakla?

A new and promising study on genetics from a university in Italy is offering a new perspective:

The mothers and maternal aunts of gay men produce more offspring than the mothers and maternal aunts of straight men. The same gene that makes these women "very productive" also produce "gay men". It seems like "gay men" are nature's own way of controlling the human population.


Sunday, June 10, 2012


There is now a scientific study that supports the idea of a "gaydar". Some people are really gifted to have a gaydar and there seems to be a basis to believe them.

Read GMA News Online

Trailer of Pikit-Mata

Let me share with you the link to the trailer of Pikit-Mata, a new gay erotic film starring Julio Diaz, Nadia Montenegro, RS Francisco and some upcoming sexy boys. Directed by Ronaldo Carballo.

Saturday, June 2, 2012

Butas 2

In this low-budgeted sexy flicks genre of which I am a part of, filmmaker Alejandro "Bong" Ramos is one of the very few who have earned my respect. So, I am glad to know that he is back with "Butas 2", which probably is a sequel to the Marco Morales film.

Premiere night is on June 9, 7pm at the UP Film Center.