tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2270217708924063344.post1004833458255795343..comments2024-02-24T16:46:02.009+08:00Comments on Lexuality: The Unaccepted 24 Year Old Gay ManLex Bonifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02695586639661947386noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2270217708924063344.post-13088111934481298782009-03-25T06:44:00.000+08:002009-03-25T06:44:00.000+08:00Yep. Good advice. The parents aren't going to chan...Yep. Good advice. The parents aren't going to change and accept someone in the role of a gay son if the son does not give them a reason to change. Waiting for them to change and being depressed around the house will just reinforce their idea that homosexuality is a failing. It's not a matter of making rational arguments and appeals. They see the depressed son and figure that he hasn't accepted his homosexuality, so why should they. The parents may never change, so moving forward in hopes of a brighter future is probably for the best.Suffern AChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03744649280608955375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2270217708924063344.post-27580194720995785762009-03-25T03:31:00.000+08:002009-03-25T03:31:00.000+08:00I have always found it fascinating that parents lo...I have always found it fascinating that parents look at their children and do this kind of thing. Who do you think raised your children? If it is not a choice or is now beyond the period of choosing, then it is an inherent part of the child. If it is a choice, who raised them to make that choice? Either way, family homophobia fails to recognize the responsibilities and roles of the homophobes and burdens the target of homophobia with everything.<BR/><BR/>On the other hand, having a family that cannot accept you in adulthood makes the process of maturation much easier. It's like someone deep in the jungle being handed a map and directions on how to get out.LoFhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17790755800889443785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2270217708924063344.post-38528511968597300422009-03-24T23:45:00.000+08:002009-03-24T23:45:00.000+08:00That's the best advice. Homophobia coming from the...That's the best advice. Homophobia coming from the family can be very hurtful.the amateur earhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16402998328387903601noreply@blogger.com