Do You Love Security Guards?

One of the more interesting blogs that I read is "SG Lover" that chronicles all the sexual adventures and pursuits of a yuppy gay man chasing all his favored security guards all around Metro Manila.

Complete with pictures and well written journals, "SG Lover" is a very interesting take on fetish on men with uniform as well as a testament to a person's freedom to pursue his sexual desires although some may actually find it a "turn off". Well after all, the men he has been hooking up with are all adults, they should all know what they are all up to.

Read this very honest sexual chronicles. And if you share this fetish, you would surely learn a lot from all the experiences written in here.

Visit http://sg-lover.blogspot.com/

boytoy4hire

I came across a very interesting blog that features different Filipino men who allegedly are into selling sexual services. What's very interesting about this blog is that it features a wide variety of men ranging from the lanky to the obviously effeminate, to underaged looking guys. Although I have to admit some men are really quite interesting.

But here's the real deal. Check out the comments section of each man featured and you'll probably read several interesting a juicy scoop about each man. Whether these comments are true or not, it is for the reader to accept it.

You must be an adult to check out this blog as it contains several anatomically graphic images.

Check out http://boytoy4hire.blogspot.com/

Obscenity

I was asked to be one of the guest speakers by an organization of Philosophy students in UP Diliman a few days ago regarding censorship.

A question was asked. As media practitioners, how do we actually delineate what is artful and what is obscene.

My reponse was, as a consumer, I take offense in the concept of the word obscene. Personally, the concept of "obscenity" makes me feel sorry for consuming materials exclusivel for my own sexual gratification. I have the right to enjoy my sexuality. This is my own body. And as long as I do not step on the rights of any other people, I can purchase materials for my own sexual pleasure.

As a media practitioner, I find it too inconvenient and at a certain extent pretentious to classify your work as obscene or artistic. One's message should be clearly expressed whether some people find it obscene or not. Anyway, no is forced to consume my message. Why should I bother to please everyone else?

Proud Hunk: Njames

I have always admired men who flaunt their sex appeal and are not ashamed of their sexual preferences.

And to pay tribute to them, I am starting a new theme of posts called "Proud Hunk", featuring sexy men who are out and proud of their sexuality whether they be gay, bisexual or even a transvestite (but i guess, i need to think of a new category for trannies as they won't fit it in the "proud hunk" concept)

And Lexuality's first proud hunk is Njames.

Njames is a third year marine student from Fatima University and a former fitness consultant. This 21 year old guy from Ortigas keeps himself fit by hitting the gym thrice a week and swimming every weekends.

He describes himself to be "freshly single" and prefers not to commit into any relationship at this time. For Njames, coming out to his family was never a problem as his family wasn't exactly close to each other.

If you're curious to find out what a "freshly single" man is, get in touch with Njames at guys4men.com

Remembering Jerome Ocampo

(photos courtesy of http://hotmenofprovoq.blogspot.com)

A few years back, hunky model Jerome Ocampo was my favorite in the group Viva Hot Men. And I first met him in our shoot of the special interest video "Sex Guru" with Asia Agcaoili.

He was a standout from the group as he came from the US and he spoke with a very strong American twang. He exuded a confidence that many other guys from the group did not have.

"Sex Guru" was my very first sex oriented project and you could just imagine how petrified I was watching the boys put on their plasters to cover their stuff. It was such an experience!

I Was Once a Urinal

Around 2003, I frequented Malate and one of the bars that I enjoyed visiting then was called Piggy's. It's a hangout place for gay men where hunky waiters were dressed in flowing, transparent pants showing off their skimpy underwears.

What was phenomenal in the place was their huge and dark dance floor, where gay sexual fantasies could always come true. Back then, if you were like me who enjoyed the smell of men's sweat, wild hands crawling on your body and anonymous kissing from men you fancy, you'd surely adore this place.

It was a place of quick hookups and anonymous encounters. Sex was quick even for someone like me who was back then normally classified as chubby.

I definitely enjoyed visiting Piggy's for a few months until one fateful evening, I was dancing the night away when suddenly i felt my shoes and my feet wet. I thought someone spilled his beer on my pants. Until I realized some drunk guy was actually peeing in the dance floor mindless about everyone else.

Unfortunately, I don't enjoy someone else peeing on me (although, I'm aware that some people are actually turned on by it). So after that incident, feeling wet and very stinky, I never went back to Piggy's.

How To Detect if the Other Guy at the Sauna is Gay

Having spent a lot of time in the steam room and sauna of different gyms all around Metro Manila, I came up with a list of "hints" to detect if the sexy guy right beside you is gay.

Now, let me make it clear. If your subject is positive with any of the following hints, he is just MORE LIKELY to be gay. And this list could not be a confirmation of your subject's sexual preference.

Here's my notes on this topic:

* The guy is wearing skimpy and/ or colorful and trendy underwear (more likely to be Bench body or Calvin Klein)

* The guy carries a full armor of toiletries (inclusive of lotion, moisturizer, exofliant, etc.) carefully packed in a soft water proof bag.

* The guy slowly shakes his shoulders and discreetly moves his lips everytime he hears Gloria Estefan's "Congga" or other hits from Madonna or Britney Spears.

* The guy covers his groins with a very short and thin towel making sure that everyone notices his manhood as he parades around the wet floors.

* Upon quickly entering the steam or sauna, the men inside seem to be rattled and startled by your presence. If this happens, quickly search for their crotches and you'll more likely notice one of them having a raging hard on. Then something really hot was going on just before you came in!

Any tips from you?