Wednesday, November 9, 2011
Safety Tips in Dealing with Rent Boys
(The Secret of Mr. M part 3)
Hi Mr. M,
I am so happy to hear that finally you have decided to enjoy your sexuality. I am very excited for you.
I'm not sure that by the word "booking" you are actually referring to a rent boy. If he is, I have some tips for you.
For safety reason, email a photo of that guy to a trusted friend of yours. Make sure that the guy knows that someone else knows that you are meeting him. So he is aware that you have records of him.
Meet the rent boy in a public place and from there decide whether you are really interested in him. (if you don't find him attractive just like his photos, please be considerate enough to give him some food and transportation allowance before you reject him).
The meetup is also the time to confirm his rate and clarify with him that your agreed rate is the only cash with you save for some motel fees and probably transpo or parking fees. Its always safer to do it in a motel especially Sogo since in these kind of motels, no is allowed to exit the hotel alone without prior clearance from the partner.
Also, clarify how he would classify himself whether he is straight, bisexual or gay. At least you would know what to expect when both of you are in bed.
And when you are in bed. Just enjoy every moment with him. And use condoms.
Good luck Mr. M. And happy first Gay Sex! I wish you more gay sex to come whether paid or not :-)
To joy and freedom!