Monday, December 24, 2012

The Pope Enjoyed These Hunks

The Pope seemed to enjoy this performance of these muscled hunks. Merry Christmas to all!

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Adonis Doesn't Fail


The famous Adonis gay strip bar in Quezon city lives up to its expectation. I had a new pair of visitors from New York City again and the Adonis did not fail me by showcasing some of the best-looking Filipino strippers in the Metro. Their performers are consistently tall, muscled and stocky and none of the lanky, straight-from-the-gutter type which is common nowadays.

None of their performers are clueless on how to move and gyrate onstage. And there's some showcase of flesh to warm up any gay man's dream for the night. Their seats and rest rooms are quite decent as well.

Get ready to pay for a minimum of PHP500 which includes your entrance and two bottles of beer. This rate is a little higher than the other gay strip bars, but it is definitely worth the price.

Adonis is located along Timog ave., in front of GMA Network Studio in Quezon City.


Saturday, December 1, 2012

At "Homme"

The next stop for my New Yorker visitors is a massage from some masculine Filipino hands so off went to the Kamuning-Kamias road, probably the center of gay-friendly massage places in PHL. We were quite lucky, a friend of mine recommended the Homme Spa along Kamuning just in front of BPI.

Of course there is nothing luxurious in the place. But compared to it's neighbors, this is the most decent, cleanest, comfortable and better-smelling. And yes, their masseurs were a lot more good-looking than their neighbors as well. Just a note, a significant improvement in their bathroom is needed.

Thank you to Jolo, manager of the spa for giving us honest tips on which masseurs to choose from. Homme Spa raised the bar higher than its neighbors.

Sunday, November 25, 2012

Dirty Dreams

This wonderful married gay couple from New York city is now in Manila for a holiday. And I was their self-appointed gay scene tourist guide. Because the Filipino half of the couple specifically asked for a "dirty" place to party in, I immediately thought of the Dream Boys bar in Cubao, Quezon city as the starting point of our Saturday night.

Saturday night entrance is PHP250 which does not include drinks. Drinks cost PHP250 at two bottles per order.

And yes, Dream Boys did not fail the expectations of my naughty visitors from the Big Apple. Some of their dancers did show more than what is legally acceptable in the Catholic-controlled Philippine laws. And they did go around tables to prove to the audience that what they have between their legs are not prosthetics. You can touch them if you don't believe your eyes. Just be ready for some bills to hand to them. I always prepare a few hundred pesos in my pocket for these examinations.

And dirty as it is, a cockroach flew at the back of the neck of my American friend born in India. Sanitation doesn't seem to be a priority in this place.

There were about twenty performers for the night. But only about four of them were capable of creating any palpable excitement between my thighs. As my visitor noticed, "Why do the less-good looking dancers have more courage to show their privates?" I answered, "because the better looking men have their faces to bank on, hence they have a privilege to keep more to themselves."

Despite of this, should one of the dancers fancy you, be ready to pay PHP300 per drink as they stay in your table. Dream Boys is located at Aurora Blvd, beside Betty Go-Belmonte station of LRT2, Cubao, Quezon city.


Thursday, November 22, 2012

New Blog

I have new blog. And it's a boring blog. No naked men. No sex talk. No gay life.

But it's all about something that is very close to my heart, traveling. So allow me to share my memories and my recommended places in my recent trips at lexGo. Thank you for your visit.

Monday, November 12, 2012

A Surprising Massage in Davao

In our recent trip to Davao, we tried this gay-friendly spa called Amaranthus. There is nothing luxurious in this place. In fact, it maybe a notch lower than comfortable for most spa fanatics in Manila. But their male massage therapists are quite good looking. It is a delight to be touched and kneaded by their attractive masseurs.

My friends enjoyed their services especially their "surprise sequence"at the end of it all. I must say this surprise is something I have never experienced in Manila. And it is up for you to explore.

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

The Men's Resort

I just came from a trip in Siem Reap, Cambodia famous for Angkor Wat and other amazing blockbuster movie-worthy temples. And in that charming town, our group stayed in Men's Resort, an all-male adult only hotel.
Our Room

The very cozy ground floor of the hotel

The four-storey hotel is tucked neatly away from the busy street. But is always accessible via "tuk-tuk", the motorcycle-driven carriage in Cambodia. It has all the amenities every gay man would require for his stay - a spa, workable gym, pool, wifi, a very cruisy jacuzzi, sauna and steam room.

Most of the guests were white men. But the wet area is open to visitors which makes the ground floor officially a "gay bath house" from 5 pm to 11pm. The place is also popular to young local gay men.

On the right side of the pool is the dark area of steam, jacuzzi and sauna.
Action happens right there.

For the use of the wet facilities with small bedrooms for your intimate activities, one month membership fee is USD40 (about PHP1,600) and entrance fee is USD7 (about PHP280). If you choose to stay in their hotel, the cheapest room is about USD50 (about PHP2000) per night.

My friends enjoyed their massage in their spa which not-surprisingly offered a gay happy ending. But no, you cannot choose from their masseurs unlike a typical gay massage place. 

Thank you to the gorgeous and charming Hawaiian couple Bill and Gordon for our memorable stay in this hotel.

Friday, October 19, 2012

Birthday Dancers

A dear friend of mine celebrated his birthday at the gay strip bar Prince Xanadu, and beside his huge birthday cake which was displayed onstage were non-stop dancers doing their signature macho-dancing moves in various states of un-dress.

So let me share some front-row views that I enjoyed last Sunday.

Prince Xanadu is located along Sct. Borromeo, South Triangle at the back of National Bookstore, Quezon Avenue, QC.

Saturday, October 13, 2012

Is Your Partner Cheating?

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How would you know if your partner is cheating on you? Does a three-way love affair really work? These are some of the topics we talked about in our wild and crazy podcast with Star DJ Mr. Fu, Fitness writer Victoria and yours truly.

Click the link below to listen to this sexy and hilarious podcast.

Tuesday, October 2, 2012

The Crime of Cybersex

With the new draconian law from the Philippine government against cybercrime, we must be extra careful if we enjoy uploading images of our own private parts on camera. Aside from we could no longer be offensive in whatever it is that we post on facebook or twitter, some evil-mided people could frame us up and threaten us with the cybercrime law.

Exposing yourself for "favor or consideration" (note this vague definition) is now punishable with at least 6 years in jail!

Speak up against this presidential Act! This law must be repealed! Read this article from Outrage magazine for more information:

Cyber-crackdown on Gays Feared 

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Saturday, September 29, 2012

How To Prepare for Anal Sex

How to prepare for anal sex is one of the topics we discussed in "WTFu", the podcast of celebrity DJ Mr. Fu. It's a one-and-a-half-hour talk show on sex, sex and more sex. The podcast is in Tagalog. (image from

Click here to listen to What The Fu September 26

Sunday, September 23, 2012

The Machete Gallery

A performer at Galleria Mia Machete

Galleria Mia Machete is a new gay strip bar along Morato. The place was a former art gallery so it's pretty neat and clean for your typical strip bar. Entrance is PHP100. And a bottle of beer is at PHP100. And if you fancy any of their featured boys for the night you pay Php740 for the mandatory two orders of men's drink.

Their version of their "All-star-cast" production number

Here's a tip, go to the rest room in between dance numbers and you could see the dancers prepping their tools at the backstage. How cool is that?

Galleria Mia Machete is located inside the Creekside building just a few meters away from E. Rodriguez before you reach Kamuning.

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Crazy Sex Talk

How can we burn more calories while masturbating? Can we fracture our penis with too much use? What could happen if we get to inhale the semen? How do we access the male G-spot?

These are some of the crazy sex questions we explored in this all-new podcast episode of What The Fu: Sep 19 with Star DJ Mr. Fu and guest co-host Lex Bonife. (Tagalog language)

Monday, September 17, 2012

Payment for "Extra" Services

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Here's an inquiry regarding how much tip should one give to his masseur:
I was in this spa (Spada) yesterday afternoon and I met this guy named Aki (probably not his real name) who is very friendly and nice.Now, since it's my first time I really cannot compare it from any other massage spas but I have to say he really knows how to massage.I was felt so relaxed after that session. I also have to add that I had a good time. The only question that I have though - is 2K a reasonable price to give for the masseur aside from the payment for the massage itself?any opinions ideas to help me become a wiser customer the next time I go to these places will be very much appreciated.TY 

 The safe answer here is give to your heart's content. But my dear, practical friend from Singapore (you-know-who-you-are) would always put an economic perspective when it comes to paying "extra" for "extra" services.

He determines the "minimum wage" of the city as part of the equation. In Metro Manila, it's about a little less than 500 pesos.

So if  you pay 500 to 1000 pesos for a few minutes of extra manual labor on you. Then you shouldn't feel bad about it. Majority of people in Metro Manila work harder for 8 hours for less than 500 pesos.

I hope this give you another perspective on the cost of the "extra" labor work that you request for.

Friday, September 14, 2012

Massage Place Recommendation?

Hello Lex!

Can you suggest a massage parlor to me? Have you tried the heavenly touch in kamias? Thanks!



Hi Jaco,

I haven't tried the "Heavenly Touch" in Kamias. Is this place inspired by the Joel Lamangan movie of the same title?

Anyway, for your own safety, my suggestion is just to choose your masseur from their place and take him out for a home or hotel service. In that way, you could avoid unwanted intrusions (raids) from authorities and the GMA Imbestigador.

Be Safe and Enjoy!


Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Sex with HS Buddy After 30 Years

Dear Lex,

I would like to share with you my experience three weeks ago. I'm a 45-year-old entrepreneur from Quezon city. Three weeks ago, there was a good-looking man who was staring at me as I was inside SM department store. The man who seemed to be ten years younger than me soon approached me. He called me by my name and he turned out to be Joey, my high school crush and classmate. about 30 years ago, I used to give him blow jobs.

He is now a successful architect, a family guy with two kids. And he still looks good. We ended up having dinner. I invited him to come over my place. And after more than three decades, I got to experience his dick again. And this time, he was more open. He gave me a torrid kiss which I never experienced from him back then.

It was such a memorable time. And I thought you'd be interested to hear about it.




Dear Elijah,

Congratulations! It sounds like a magical experience. Thanks for sharing and I wish you more exciting experiences to come.



Saturday, September 8, 2012

A Brilliant Gay Film

"Bwakaw" for me is probably the best gay film this country has ever produced. It is a very sensitive and poignant story on one thing that confronts many of us gay men: growing old alone. Please support this brilliant film starring Eddie Garcia and helmed by Jun Lana. Now Showing at SM Cinemas:

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

Sex Questions Answered

Star DJ, Mr. Fu

I had a great time guesting at the podcast of Star DJ Mr. Fu, where we answered a ton of sex questions from how-to-make-sex-interesting all the way to how-to-give-a-good-blow-job.

Watch the podcast: What The Fu with guest Lex Bonife. 

Monday, September 3, 2012

The X-cort

Daniel Deramayo for "The Escort"

The Escort is X-Rated. According to MTRCB, the sex scenes were "overwhelming". So at this moment, I could not tell when it will be commercially released.

Thursday, August 23, 2012

TV Host Has a Secret

According to one of the "veteran personalities" of, this good-looking and talented TV host has availed and enjoyed his service. Not exactly a surprise since I have been hearing showbiz insiders talk about his bisexual tendencies.

TV host is happily married and a product endorser.

Thursday, August 9, 2012

Noah and a Gay Couple

Noah and a Gay Couple
as imagined by Lex Bonife

A gay couple knocks on the door of Noah's Ark just before it closes.

Noah refuses them entry.

"No need for you guys. I just need one straight couple and the gay and lesbians will still be everywhere".

Monday, August 6, 2012

On Snakes and Penises

This is not a snake. And is not a penis as well.

A few weeks ago, a new a amphibious species was discovered in Brazil. And they were called Trouser Snake. Unlike snakes, they are not reptiles. And unlike a penis, they don't exactly look delightful.

In my google search of this species, this photo came out to my delight!

Sunday, August 5, 2012

How to Know If One is Gay or Straight?

In case you are interested with a co-worker and you're not sure whether he is gay or straight, a British psychiatrist has some tips in this interesting video.

Saturday, August 4, 2012

More Bed Scenes/ Sins

There are more shows to the sexy gay stage play "Bed Scenes/ Sins", a play by J. Dennis Teodisio's who is one my most admired contemporary playwrights.

I am hoping to catch this either on August 5 or 12 at The Library, Malate.

Friday, August 3, 2012

Hot Olympians

Here are two reasons why it's fun to watch the Olympics:

Monday, July 30, 2012

Sex Talk with Jay Enriquez

Newbie Actor Jay Enriquez

Jay Enriquez was an Engineering student from University of the Philippines Diliman. But deep inside of him, he really wants to be an actor. He decided to take the sexy route when he realized TV networks would not take notice of him after he paid thousands of pesos for an acting workshop.

Today, he has two upcoming films: "Adam's Apple", "Kumpare" and one stage play: "Bed Scenes".

Growing up overweight, he was determined to shed off his excess flab and that motivates him to show off his leaner body on camera.  Aside from appearing naked on his movies, he has no qualms doing intimate scenes with other men - kissing, rubbing and even smelling the genitals of his fellow actor in a simulated oral sex scene.

For him there is nothing shameful in doing gay scenes.

"It's just work. And in real life, I don't moonlight as a male prostitute", he adds. And it seems like he doesn't really need to do commercial sex unlike many other actors. He drives a high-end SUV and his parents he claims, are successful business persons.

He might have some degree of class compared to usual sex-worker-turned-actor in the gay erotic movies. But he is candid with his sex life. Here are some sexy facts about him:

  • He was 17 when he had a first sex encounter with his girlfriend. He was a late bloomer as he never had confidence with his chubby built back then. 
  • He used to enjoy having sex with his girlfriend inside his car until he was caught by some police men. He had to call his parents to settle the "bill".
  • He loves tongue-play on his nipples over some wet kiss on his balls.
  • His dick is 7 inches (or so he claims)
Watch him on the trailer of his upcoming film Adam's Apple, which will be shown this Wednesday (August 1)

Saturday, July 28, 2012

That X-Rated Movie "Pikit-Mata"

newcomer Jay Autria and RS Francisco

Romano Vasquez hugging an actor this writer could not identify

Last night, I was fortunate enough to be invited to the special Director's Cut screening of "Pikit-Mata" helmed by Ronaldo Carballo. The movie had very strong performances from its seasoned cast of actors: Nadia Montenegro, Julio Diaz, Ernie Garcia, Soxie Topacio, Dax Alejandro and teleserye regular RS Francisco.

Now, I really don't understand why this film is "not fit" for public viewing as of the "moral standards" of MTRCB. Yes, there were a lot of "tongue-kissing" in the film. But I don't see anything visually objectionable for it to merit an "X-rating".

Anyway, I do hope you guys could get the chance to see this film. Congratulations to the cast, crew and the director of this movie.

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Thursday, July 26, 2012

Hot Comrades

"Kumpare" is a new film by dedicated gay genre filmmaker Jonison Fontanos. I guess the film is about the joy of having male friends which all of us could attest to. Here's the trailer of the film:

Monday, July 16, 2012

Play: Bed Scenes

Here's an interesting event at the Library Malate:

BED SCENES! 4 na Lalaki, 2 Dula, 1 Kama, Hala! on July 22,(SUN) 7pm sharp at The Library Bar Malate! LIMITED TICKETS ONLY! PRICE 500, 400 & 350. Just PM or text Allan Santos at 09222942257 for reservations.

Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Disappointed Spa Customer

In a post about the gay-friendly "Spada", one anonymous reader posted his not-so-good review about it:

I'm a foreigner in Manila and like to discover new places for a good massage. Well, after reading your original post, I decided to get to Spada and get the Lingam massage. What a disappointement. Frankly for 1200 pesos, it's not worthy. It's a good massage but you can have the same in many spas for not more than 400. And I didn't find the interior so tasteful. I went in the afternoon, no music, only the sound of the Tv and the sound of the trucks on the road. For me, it's definetly not a must-try-spa.

This feedback should make the management of Spada improve its services.

Sunday, July 8, 2012

Why He Came Out

CNN News Anchor Anderson Cooper
In a perfect world, one's sexual orientation should not be anybody else's business. But given the discrimination, the bullying and humiliation to which gays are routinely subjected, I do think there is value in standing up and being counted.

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Penis Size and Finger Length

The index finger will give some clue

Have you ever wondered if there's a correlation between penis size and finger size? According to a recent scientific study featured in Time Magazine, there is.

Men with shorter index fingers compared to their ring fingers have longer penis.

For the size queens out there, you now what to do!

Read the Time Magazine Article

Thursday, June 28, 2012

It's for the Young Gay Men

Young Filipino Gay Men are proud of their sexuality

Most of my dearest friends in their 40's do not agree with marriage equality. My beloved friends grew up in the 70's and 80's and the gay life then was really different. Think of Dolphy's Pacifica Falayfay or Roderick Paulate's Petrang Kabayo. And that will give you an idea on how society viewed the Filipino gay man. That was the world back then. And I certainly understood why someone from that era would never dare to demand for equal treatment.

Roderick Paulate's gay movie characters
represented how society accepted
the gay men in the 80's

Fast forward to 2000. Gay Men are connected to the internet. More and more developed countries are accepting Gay Marriage. Young gay men now have a bigger sense of freedom. They are now open to be in a relationship with each other rather than settle with a "commercial" boy toy. They join pride marches. Gay Lovers dare to hold each other's hands at the mall (and they even dare to kill each other for love).

With these accelerating changes here's the inevitable truth. The future of equality belongs to these young men who think they deserve equal treatment. And not to those who have used up half of their lifetime accepting homophobia as a rule of life.

Monday, June 25, 2012


My apologies to my dear readers. There has been low frequency of blog posts from me. You see I am busy with this very sexy reality show. And my contract with TV5 forbids me to post anything about the project.

This blog will be active as soon as I finish shooting the reality show and that will be about a month from now.

For the meantime, you can follow me on twitter: @lexbonife