Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Never Be Ashamed

Bakla, mahalaga ka sa mundong ito. Huwag mong hayaang hiyain ka ng iba. Stand Up. Be Proud and be part of the Pride March this Saturda (Dec 3), 4:15pm at the Remedios Circle, Malate.

Monday, November 28, 2011

Sabi ni Nanay

Sharon: Anak, marami akong pagkakamali sa pag-ibig. Pero kailanman hindi ako umibig ng bakla!

KC: Weh! are you sure?

(Kathang isip lamang ito)

Midas' Secret?

 Bading kaya si Supreme Court Spokesperson Midas Marquez? Watch this.

Sunday, November 27, 2011

Un-Dress Rehearsal

Yesterday, my dear friend and bikini contest aficionado Carlota brought me to the rehearsals of an underground show at Dreamboys bar along Aurora Blvd. in Quezon City. This show organized by a photographer only happens once a month and by-invitation-only.

Allow me to share with you some of the photos I took. And mind you, these photos are the most "conservative" from what I have collected.

Opening number in jeans

After the jeans, This their second most "conservative" outfit

The one at the center appeared in "Hot Hunks" video.

Backstage and onstage they are all naked. So, what's the backstage for?

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Show Some Pride

December is around the corner. And as a responsible Filipino gay man (or bisexual or transgender), the best way to welcome this month is to attend the Pride March on December 3, 4 pm at the Remedios Circle in Malate.

Bring your best buddies, your fuck buddies, your girlfriends or even your family with you. The Pride March is a great experience for every bakla or bisexual out there.

And if you have an organization that supports gay rights, click here to register.

See you all there!

Monday, November 21, 2011

The Spam Incident

A gay man I have worked with in the movie "Kape Barako" has an interesting story to share.

One night, he brought a rent boy in his pad. The rent boy saw a can of spam in one corner. He asked the gay man if they could eat it. Gay man refuses and claims that the food was owned by his aunt.

Rent boy proceeds to the ground floor bath room. Gay man goes up the bedroom to prepare for a night of excitement. After several minutes, gay man wonders why it has taken the rent boy so long to shower. Gay man comes down to realize that the rent boy is gone along with what else, the can of spam.

Monday, November 14, 2011

Hot Thai

Aside from Filipinos, Thais for me, are the best looking men in Asia. And they are really stuffed down their crotch compared to most Filipinos.

Here's a "inspiring" photo of some Thai volunteers during their recent flood problem in Bangkok.

Saturday, November 12, 2011


Lexuality says:

"Ang pagdikit sa mas magaganda ay hindi nakagaganda. Huwag nang umasa pa."

Beauty like anything else is relative. If one keeps on parading himself surrounded with others more beautiful than one is, one's physical weaknesses are simply emphasized. 


Watch a play. Take the Test. HIV is the the most alarming issue in our community. Support these causes. November 30, 2011, 6pm at The Library, Malate.

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Safety Tips in Dealing with Rent Boys

(The Secret of Mr. M part 3)

Hi Mr. M,

I am so happy to hear that finally you have decided to enjoy your sexuality. I am very excited for you.

I'm not sure that by the word "booking" you are actually referring to a rent boy. If he is, I have some tips for you.

For safety reason, email a photo of that guy to a trusted friend of yours. Make sure that the guy knows that someone else knows that you are meeting him. So he is aware that you have records of him.

Meet the rent boy in a public place and from there decide whether you are really interested in him. (if you don't find him attractive just like his photos, please be considerate enough to give him some food and transportation allowance before you reject him).

The meetup is also the time to confirm his rate and clarify with him that your agreed rate is the only cash with you save for some motel fees and probably transpo or parking fees. Its always safer to do it in a motel especially Sogo since in these kind of motels, no is allowed to exit the hotel alone without prior clearance from the partner.

Also, clarify how he would classify himself whether he is straight, bisexual or gay. At least you would know what to expect when both of you are in bed.

And when you are in bed. Just enjoy every moment with him. And use condoms.

Good luck Mr. M. And happy first Gay Sex! I wish you more gay sex to come whether paid or not :-)

To joy and freedom!


The Masturbating Pastor

Another anti-gay pastor is in a sex scandal as he was caught masturbating in front of a playground. He then apologizes to the gay and lesbian community.

This pastor should teach us more about morality!


Sunday, November 6, 2011

The Gym Teacher

Si teacher. Nilalasing ang mga varsity players na estudyante. Tapos hahadahin. Bading ba siya?


Isang syang babae! Taray di ba?

Ohio Gym Teacher Jailed for Having Sex with Students

Gay Sex Aprehensions

(The Secret of Mr. M part 2)

But Mr.M is a bit worried with his first gay sex. Read on:

I'm scared, Lex. I don't know what to expect. The only thing I know about gay sex is from what I see in porn videos. Other than that, nothing. But I don't want to reach past my prime without knowing it feels to have a man's body against yours.

I'm taking this risk. I know there's always the threat of sustaining STD from such an escapade. This is why I am seeking your help. I know you are a towering voice in the gay community, that's why I didn't think twice to write you about my situation.
I hope you can help me about this. I am more than willing to exchange correspondences with you in the future.

Thursday, November 3, 2011

The Secret of Mr. M

(The Secret of Mr. M part 1)

Mr. M, a discreet guy, virgin from any forms of gay sex finally decides he's had enough of depriving himself from enjoying his sexuality. Here's the first part of his letter to Lexuality:

Hi Lex.

I booked this rather good looking guy from a website I found, and I would like to seek advice from you.
You see, I am a discreet gay guy. None of my friends or relatives know I am gay. I've been very good at keeping my real identity to those around me.

But keeping this secret has taken its toll on me today, when I had this dream of having a sexual encounter with three good-looking men. Upon waking up, I told myself "that's it!"
I've had enough. I've had several girlfriends in the past, in my attempt to live a "normal" life. But it didn't prove helpful in changing myself. I'm gay, and I had a hard time accepting that I am one. That's my problem.
But that's about to change. I'm gathering the courage to slowly accept who I really am. The first step I took is booking this really good looking guy I met online. We will meet on Thursday

(to be continued)