Friday, March 18, 2011

How Woud You Know If a Guy Is Serious?

Part 4 of Migz, the Virgin

In a romantic level, you'll know if a guy is into you if he wants to build a deep friendship with you even after both of you have explored all kinds of physical connection in bed. Another indicator if a guy is romantically serious with you is, if he starts introducing you to his friends and family. That means there's something between the two of you that's really special.

These are some of the lessons i have learned having experienced a little over a decade of flirting, loving and hurting. I'm sure the wiser readers of this blog have more to say.

 Thank you for reading this blog.Young people like you are the reason why I continue to maintain this website. May you have a joyful, exciting and a fulfilling gay life ahead of you.

Love,

lex

7 comments:

david m said...

"wiser?" hmm, what a kind way of saying "OLDER!" (lol)

how do you know if a relationship is serious? you just know and if you don't know, then it ain't serious.

falling in love was easy. you didn’t have to DO anything. that’s why it’s called “falling” in love… It’s a passive and spontaneous experience. you anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.

it is only after the honeymoon period wears off when you have to seriously consider, "is this the guy for me?"

therefore, the key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person, it's learning to love the guy that you found.

Anonymous said...

Most of the time it is difficult to know. The only way to find out is to give it time...enough time to know each other well. If nobody is willing to give the relationship time to mature and deepen, it will never be serious.

Anonymous said...

My relationship has gone beyond the said process as we are now on our 26th year! Both our relatives knew about us and the "so called" honeymoon stage has not worn off, although it has lessened a bit. Of course, jealousy and fighting were a-plenty but you have to love the guy with all the idiosyncrasies because nobody is perfect.

Myke said...

very well said, david m

but do keep in mind that very few men really grow "wiser"

the rest just grow older

Anonymous said...

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SA IBANGLAHI PA SIGURO,,,EWAN KO LANG,,SAKA,,ANO BAYAN,,GAY TO GUY,,O GAY TO GAY O ANO,,,IBA ANG LEVEL SYEMPRE NG LOVE NG GIRL AT BOY,,SA GAY TO WATEVER..MAHIRAP I DISTINGUED O RECOGNIZED KASE SA ISANG BAKLA KUNG LOVE BA YAN O ANO,,TSK,,KAYA NGA SABI KO WAG PAUUTO SA MGA GUYS,,BE WISER THAN THEM,,LALO NA KAPAG MAGANDA KANG BAKLA,,WAG PAUUTO SA KANILA,BAKA MAS GWAPO KAPA SA KANILA O MAS MALAKI PA ANG KARGADA MO,,HEHEAGRABYADO KAPA,,HEHE.

SIGURO KUNG SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP.,.SA IBANG LAHI MO MAKIKITA IYAN ,,BIHIRA SA PINOY,,BALANSE PADIN KULTURA NATIN KASE,,

SO GUDLUCK,

Anonymous said...

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SABI KO NGA,,,GAYS R NOT SEX OBJECT,NOT AT ALL,,NA WAG NILANG LAHATIN NA ,LAHAT NG BAKLA ,,SLUT O BITCH IN TOWN,HEHE.NA SUCKING AT FUCKING LANG ANG ALAM,,,TSK,,ITAAS NNATIN ANG IMAGE NG KABAKLAAN,BILANG DECENT AT PROFFESIONAL NA TAO,,LALO NA SA PINAS,,MATUTO TAYO SA SELF CONTROL,AT MANGIBABAW ANG DYOS PARA SA LAHAT,,


SA NAGYON,,MAPILI NA DIN MGA GUYS NOW,,THEY WANTS GAYS NA MAY QUALITY,,AT MAAYOS DIN,,MAIPAGMAMALAKI NILA,,,

MAY MGA KILALA AKONG BAKLA NA ,,THE WAY THEY ACT AND MOVED,MAG SALITA E GAY SILA,,PERO YUNG LIFESTYLE NILA,,HINDI NAMAN,,HINDI SILA NAKIKIPAG JOWAHAN AT DI SILA BITCHY,,JUST TO RELEASE ANG PAGIGING GAY NILA THRU WORDS AT ACTIONS,MOSTLY PA SA KANILA,MGA PRETTY GAYS BUT LIVING IN DECENCY OF LIFE,,,

Anonymous said...

if your relationship lasted for almost 30 years i think it is more than enough to say that the guy is serious. i know you would not believe me. you might say that this is only a fabrication in my mind but from the first day we've met up to now i still feel the intensity of his love for me. nothing has changed.