Saturday, May 29, 2010

Straight Lovers into Gay Sex


Here's a letter from Marvin who shares his interesting sexual experiences with his three male lovers whose self identification is heterosexual:

Lex im your reader who said that,

You two anonymous are completely mistaken or perhaps you have not experienced it yourselves. I am a living proof of having 3 straight guys I have relationship with.
I should say I have invested blood and sweat just to get what I wanted. I court them like a straight guy would court a girl, I have to spend money to take them to nice restaurants, give them gifts, and just be thoughtful always, (Im not like other gays who would let the guy know Im only after sucking his dick) tyaga talaga but Im happy because this is who I am, I like to challenge myself but in the end the reward is more than I always expected.
Mind you Im not bad looking and any gays would readily take me, Anyways, when they finally gave in, you were right, they would just lie in bed and let me do my stuff but as we keep doing it over and over again, (yes, they can't resist the power of a gay's man mouth on their dicks, once they experience it they will come back for more) they started reciprocating (meaning we do 69) to my surprise of course! And one of these 3 would love me to fuck him and it is just one thing he only wanted me to do to him rather than giving him a blow. If you ask me why? I let him watched a gay xxx movie and probably got curious. Straight guys don't even know about stimulating their prostate glands hidden inside their anus. Don't u love it when they found out? To be honest, I don't expect them to suck me too everything just happens spontaneously. As i said, it took a while before these straight guys would suck my dick the way I did.
Siguro it would a need a further study from the experts why suddenly a straight guy would do gay thing in bed with a partner. Even me is perplexed but Im loving it.

I dont make a sweeping generalization that all straight guys will eventually suck someone's dick but don't give me your crap that straight men at all cost would not suck a dick if given the chance and not enjoy it.

Mahabang discussion ito but like I said, this happened to me and still happening as Im still very much involved with them discreetly that is, since they have their own families to contend with.

And you have no idea how it makes me happy when they text me " I love you!"
              Marvin

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Dear Marvin,

Thank you for sharing this.

You are very lucky to have your lovers and to be sexually satisified by these men who identify themselves as straight. I think that's what's great about Filipinos. Many straight Filipinos are willing to try gay sex. Such phenomena is backed up by studies from the University of the Philippines and the Department of Health.

May you always have love and fantastic sex in your life.

Lex

24 comments:

Anonymous said...

I can relate to Marvin's situation as I, too, have a so called straight lover who says he loves me. In the beginning, I was doing all the hard work in bed but after two years, he finally gave in. He now sucks my dick and he lets me fuck him each time we make out, which I know he enjoys as he always comes while fucking him. It's been over five years now since we first met and we are still very much together even though he recently got married and had a baby. He makes sure that he always has time for me.... I love him dearly!

Mabuhay ang mga straight guys sa Pilipinas!!!

Kevina said...

hay, madali nga namang magilusyon sa internet.

and lex, I've read about that UP study. pero what they didn't take into consideration ay kung ilan ba sa study population nila ay mga closeta. eh dito sa Pilipinas siguro sa bawat isang badet na lantad, bente ang closeta or allegedly bisexual kuno.

Anonymous said...

Echuz....ang tawag diyan Bisexual... naku, huwag nga tayong maang-maangan kung straight siya bakit siya pumatol sa bading? kaya nga straight kasi straight kung pumapatol sa bading at may asawa, Bisexual.... hello walang straight na papatol sa bading....kung isang beses lang nagpa chupa dahil sa pera pwede pa...pero kung nag enjoy na siya iba na yon hmmmm hoy sender gumawa ka na lang kaya ng sarili mong wikipedia at definition para lahat ng bading matawag mong straight din bwahahahaha ilusyon mo lang na straight silang lahat para sa sarili mong ego.

Anonymous said...

i think that behavior is essentially learned through conditioning. the judgments associated with certain acts - such as those considered homosexual, deviant, promiscuous - are unfortunate, of course. but at the end of the day, it boils down to conditioning. we can all get the response that we desire from our partners if we are willing to invest the time and effort to condition them appropriately.

Anonymous said...

mga echoserang bakla.... pati ikaw Lex nagpapaniwala ka naman jan... hoi wag nio nga pinagloloko mga sarili nio...walang straight na nakikipag sex sa bading... maliban na lang kung para sa pera lang ...

Melanie said...

para naman nakakaloka kung chuchupain ka nung BF mo eh bakla ka... parang hindi nakakababae... eh babae ako... ano ba?! charut!

malay niyo naman ate, totoo talaga yung sinabi ni sender... enjoy lang sa mga posts ni Lex...

Anonymous said...

Actally totoo to. I experienced this as well sa mga lalaking binayaran ko. And they are not your average hunks. Yung isa pa nga sexy actor nung 90s hehe

Anonymous said...

By definition, Ang Straight guy ay babae talaga ang habol ok? ewan ko ba sa karamihan satin, hindi pa rin matanggap ang katotohanan, nabubuhay pa rin sa ilusyon na kaya silang mahalin ng lalaki na walang kapalit. Kung sinasabi nilang mahal nila kayo talaga at walang hinihinging kapalit, at kung supsupin ang mga nota nyo ay daig pa ang mga uhaw na sanggol, hindi mga straight guys yun ok? hay naku ewan ko ba sa karamihan ng gays sa Philippines, nabubuhay pa rin sa dream world.

Kyle said...

nakakatawa ka Lex, ginatungan mo pa talaga ang pag-iilusyon ni Marvin.

I'm not saying na hindi pwedeng mangyari yung sexual experiences nya with those men. Ang maling mali lang talaga ay yug pagrefer pa rin sa mga lalaking ito as straight. By definition alone, hindi na pasok sa criteria ng straight men yan. Kung i-bj ka ng lalaki or pumayag silang pabottom, mangyayari lang yan kung may bayad, and there's no way a straight guy would enjoy giving blowjobs. Hello, ang mga bakla nga maramnig hindi nag-eenjoy mag bj unless sper bet nila yung guy, ang straight guy pa kaya?!

I agree na Pwedeng walang cash or material things involved, but only when it comes to one sided gay sex like us giving them blowjobs, pero kung mas higit pa doon and they'll get nothing in exchange, don't expect them to be straight men.

As for marvin's men, they must have been hiding in the closet before, or at least bisexuals, but defintiely, based on the definition of a straight guy, they are NOT straight men. To keep on insisting that a 100% straight guy is capable of loving another man, or to insist that guys who engage in full blown gay sex and get nothing in return are still straight... well, that just makes some gay men look incredibly pathetic.

peace out.

Anonymous said...

this is very dangerous.
this kind of argument is being used against gays. there are people who think that being gay is a learned behavior and can be reveresed.
that is why there are no equal rights for homosexuals because they think that it can be cured since its a psychological issue that is learned.
and no, you cannot pray away the gay too.

Anonymous said...

1. Just because you didn't experience it doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

2. Great sex = give & take. The giving & taking does not always involve money.

3. It's 2010, are labels like hetero, homo & bi really still relevant & do these labels make you a better person?

Anonymous said...

i think that behavior is essentially learned through conditioning. the judgments associated with certain acts - such as those considered homosexual, deviant, promiscuous - are unfortunate, of course. but at the end of the day, it boils down to conditioning. we can all get the response that we desire from our partners if we are willing to invest the time and effort to condition them appropriatel - THIS IS THE BEST EXPLANATION I GUESS.

Anonymous said...

wala namang magsasabing wala ngang straight guy na later on will be sexually and emotionally involved with a gay guy. just like what happened to me, i saw this ordinary looking hunk of a guy sa megamall na naglalakad, sinundan ko siya at lakas loob akong nagpakilala. he was very evasive but i insisted and told him just needed someone to talk to. nag offer akong kumain kame of course and told him that i am a closeted gay man. palitan ng numbers, for one month i kept on texting him walang response, till finally he responded and agreed to meet. he started opening up,he was married with 3 kids and he comes to manila for a business once a week. showed me his family pics. everytime he comes to manila we meet and just eat out and hang out for few hours and that's it, no sex and i never asked we do. i went to samar to visit him pero he did not allow me to meet his family patago lang. naging close kame like true friends, but i tell you everytime we meet nandun yung desire ko. but i was careful not to touch that topic lest iwasan nya ako. it took us more than a year bago nya ko pinabigyan and it was unplanned and it was the best experience. since then, we do it every week and yes he does gay sex to me, same thing i do to him which happened later on in our sexual encounters. so para sabihin na ang straight will never do or enjoy gay sex once discovered is a fallacy.

they have since moved to canada and now has 5 kids very much straight, loves sports like crazy, nothing in him will give any hint he is bisexual or gay because he is in fact straight but discovered the joy of gay sex in our once beautiful secret love affair. yes he said i love you to me many times and i knew it came from the heart. we meet when they come here for christmas vacation and guess what we do every time.

Anonymous said...

asus, porke may asawa't mga anak straight na? halurks. gumising ka nga sister. closeta yang naharbat mo noh!

hay naku bayaan na nga lang natin ang mga ilusyunada na yan. there's no sense arguing with them dahil kung ganyan na sila kalubog sa kanilang mga pantasya na straight guys ang mga nakachukchakan nila, imposible nang ihaon ang mga yan. let them rot in their own fantasies.

Anonymous said...

"don't give me your crap that straight men at all cost would not suck a dick if given the chance and not enjoy it. "

may don't give me the crap don't give me the crap ka pang nalalaman dyan, eh etong statement mo na toh na ata ang crappiest statement na narining ng mga balahurang tenga ko! tse!

Anonymous said...

kakalowkah talaga ang mga bekbek sa Pilipinas, ang daming nananaginip ng gising!

Anonymous said...

may mga baklang ingitera dito and you Klye! palibhasa di nyo pa nae experienced! so the least you can do is make ingit!! ingitera echoserang mga malasadong badets na di na lang matuwa sa karanasan ng iba. tse!! this is happening at imulat nyo ang mga mata nyo! tse ulit!!

Kyle said...

Look, I never said na these sexual experiences that you've shared with us never happened. What I'm saying is, these guys are NOT straight guys. If you think they are, then open your eyes. If you'd keep on insisting, then obviously you guys don't even know the definition of a straight guy. Do some research. Anyone with half a brain can realize that. You guys just look pathetic for us gay men who know better.

Again, Peace out.

ןıuǝ oɟ ɟןıƃɥʇ said...

"Maybe my gay fans are just better behaved than my straight fans." Ryan Phillippe in The Advocate, http://www.advocate.com/Print_Issue/Spectator/Cool_Intentions/

note the lack of gender specificity....

Anonymous said...

....this is so sad...kagaya ng ibang mga nag-comment dito, napapailing na lang ako dahil sa napakalaking ilusyon natin na papatol sa atin ang isang straight na guy....kung nagpapaligaw siya, that means may latent homosexual feelings sya......eh tayo bang mga gays sa tingin nyo basta nakapanood lang ng man to woman x-rated video e gaganahan tayo para himurin ang pekpek ng isang babae?...d ba hindi?

Anonymous said...

@anonymous june 3 - agree ako diyan.
sorry to rain on your parade mga kabaro, your arguments should work both ways. sino sa inyo and willing lumaplap ng pekpek at magpaka-straight dahil na-condition kayo ng magandang babae? raise your hand!!!
...i think so too.
there, i rest my case.
if it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, it must be a duck.
if it like to suck dick like a gay, like to get fucked like a
gay, must be a . . .
catch my drift.
you guys, ever heard of closeted, straight acting homosexuals? look it up, might do us all good.

Anonymous said...

...@anonymous june 9: im so glad naintindihan mo ang gusto kong sabihin.....kaso ang mas mangangailangan ng enlightenment ay ang ating mga nalilihis na kababayan....though masarap nga tlagang isipin na lalaking lalaki ang nadekwat natin, i still wouldn't mind kung in the end ay gay naman tlaga sya, na nataon lang na straight na straight ang buong katauhan, maliban sa kanyang sexual orientation...it is all about the problem of acceptance kasi. tayo, ayaw nating nadi-discriminate pero tayo mismo nangdi-discriminate, kesyo ayaw nating bading ang ating bf, gusto natin tunay na lalaki...duh? whats up with that?...(sigh) hay naku, i hope im making sense here.

Anonymous said...

ako may ka-ofizmate ako na akala ko straight. pero one time nagpaparamdam sa text, pinatulan ko mga text nya hanggang sa bigla ko xa biniro na ako na lang hahawak para ijerk xa. one time sa cr, dinikit ng dinikit sa akin ang harap nya, dinukot ko. dun na nagumpisa intimate relationship namin. but one time, cnb nya sa akin, suck din nya ako. tpos after few months uli, iba na gusto nya. try daw nya magpafuck. gusto nya mranasan. ayun, ako ang unang nakasundot sa kanya. ang pinagpapantasyahan ng lahat sa opisina namin, ako pala ang gusto.

Anonymous said...

okay let there be an end 2 this never ending issue with this tanong.. kelangan bang 100% straight talaga para masabing straight? or if 99.99 lang eh hndi nxa straight? ano ba if a straight man enjoyed sex from a gay guy and still calls his self straight, LEt HIM BE. eh nalibog xa eh masarap kaya yun.LOL