Are You Game?

Here's my response to Adrian, the young engineer who is secretly in love with his roommate:


Hi Adrian,

Thanks for writing. 


First, reading text messages of other people is not an acceptable behavior. Even partners who respect each other's privacy don't do it with each other.

Stop checkin on his messages and just ask him point blank if he is open to have sex with other men. Don't be afraid. Just ask the question when both of you are relaxed and comfortable.


Whatever his answer is, just take your cue from there.

Good luck!

Lex