Nude Dancers

Arjay Carreon, Marco Morales and several other dancers gyrate in their birthday suit in one of the scenes of Larauang Lalake.

Now Showing at Robinsons Galleria, Remar (Cubao) and Roben (Recto)

A "Bulging" Dream

“Gusto ko pong maging si Coco Martin”


- Samuel


The fresh and daring actor Arjay Carreon plays Samuel, the brave and barely adult actor who dreams of becoming the next big star by undressing onscreen. For Samuel, it’s all about achieving fame and fortune. And he will do whatever it takes to find his dream.

"Laruang Lalake" is now showing at Robinsons Galleria, Remar (Cubao) and Roben (Recto)

Second Chance?

Marco Morales in a torrid kiss with Arjay Carreon. In the
backround is Richard Quan

“Siguro naman, puwede ang second chance…”


- Peejay


Film and TV actor Marco Morales, famous for his wild performances in “Butas” and “The Big Night” is Peejay, a former child actor who worked as a guest relations officer in Macau. Peejay comes back to Manila to hit his second shot at stardom. Will this new film be the answer to his dream?

"Laruang Lalake" opens on Wednesday (October 27) at Robinsons Galleria. Remar (Cubao) and Roben (Recto).

The Gay Bar and the Gay Film

“Mahina na ang gay bar ngayon. Indie films na ngayon ang uso!”


- Bong


Award winning actor Mon Confiado plays Bong, an aggressive gay strip bar owner who ventures into film production for the first time. For Bong, filmmaking is just another way to provide for the voyeuristic needs of the gay market.

"Laruang Lalake opens on Wednesday, October 27 at Robinsons Galleria, Remar (Cubao) and Roben (Recto).

The Sex Eye Ball part 2

Part 2

Yilmaz Bektas, the look-alike
of our visitor

A soft knock on my door soon followed. With one eye, I looked through the peep hole and there I saw the beautiful face that resembled the man in the picture. After a long exhalation, I opened the door to see a good looking man trapped in a body length that was just a few inches taller than the famous midget, Mahal. (to my recollection, I think he was below 5 foot tall).

A huge disappointment filled my pad as the foreigner stepped inside. Visions of Ylmaz Bektas soon disappeared.

A few pleasantries were exchanged with how-long-have-you-been-here-in-manila kind of conversation. The small talk ended. And we were confronted with the problem of how to dispose of this guy without losing Filipino hospitality.

In Tagalog, the celebrity and I conversed.

“Papauwiin ko na ito”, I declared.

“Ang samo mo naman. Kawawa naman yung tao. Ako na lang makikipag-sex sa kanya. Imagine-in ko na lang matangkad siya”, the celebrity offered.

I checked the profile again of our visitor. I saw the height. And it stated “5’9” – a clear deception.

The famouse midget Mahal

“Huwag kang maawa. Sinungaling sya. Nanloko siya sa profile niya. Hence, he deserves to be rejected!”, I said.

“Paano mo papaalisin? Baka magwala!”, the celebrity asked.

“Akong bahala. Pag umalma, malalaman niyang dati akong kickboxer!”.

I got back to our visitor whose eyes were looking forward to fuck one of us.

“So, shall we start?”, the foreigner asked.

“Do you mean sex? Oh no, that’s not possible! Today is Good Friday. We Filipinos, we cannot have sex during Good Friday or we burn in hell forever”, I said.

“Oh, but I thought…”, the foreigner protested.

“We only wanted to make friends. But sex is a no-no. Not possible today. In fact, we are about to pray in a while. Do you want to join us?”

The foreigner left my pad peacefully. Now, here’s a case where religion really saved my ass!

The Sex Eye Ball part 1

Part 1

It was a Good Friday, one of those holidays that left the Ortigas business district almost empty of human activities. I invited this popular celebrity to come over my place (not for sex but just to hang out), as both of us were bored and stuck in the city. I was chatting over a gay social networking site when I came across a profile of a good looking Mediterranean guy looking for some hot action. He was almost a clone of Ylmaz, the former husband of actress Ruffa Gutierrez.

“Shit! Ang guwapo! Invite ko kaya ito, dito?”, I thought out loud.

But the Celebrity was apprehensive. He didn’t like sexual indiscretions as it may hurt his “wholesome” image.

“Huwag kang mag-alala, hindi yan Pinoy. Hindi ka makikilala!”, I said.

The foreigner agreed to come over. The celebrity and I were jumping like little girls getting a Barbie doll for the first time.

“What if he asks for a threesome?”, the celebrity wondered.

“Hindi. Papipiliin natin siya.”, I replied.

And now, like real gentlemen, we came up with an agreement.

After a shower and a mouth wash, both of us were ready to meet our Mediterranean visitor. Then a call from the building guard came confirming if we were expecting a visitor.


to be continued...

Knockout Tyson

Nowadays, he prefers to be called "Tyson". He used to be a ramp model and he appeared as an actor in the film "Twilight Dancers" as one of the bodyguards of the corrupt Mayor played by Joel Lamangan. He was one of those sexy guys dancing at the mayor's party. Interested to get in touch with him? Visit his My Boy Toy webpage for details.

Paggalang sa Puwet

“Ginagalang namin kung paano niyo ginagamit ang mga puke niyo! Igalang niyo naman kung paano namin ginagamit ang mga puwet namin”

- Wilfredo

Versatile Actor Richard Quan plays Wilfredo, a financially desperate filmmaker who embarks on a journey as he creates his gay soft porn entitled “Laruang Lalake”. An award winning director, Wilfredo battles the constricted realities of making a gay film and the parameters set by a society that pretends to accept the homosexual.

Laruang Lalake Opens October 27 at Robinsons Galleria, Remar (Cubao), Roben (Manila) and Eden (Cebu)

A Fantasy Comes True



The pool of masseurs from Boys of Bora

 Last Wednesday, I finally gave the "Boys of Bora" treat to the chosen reader of this blog. He is Johnel C., a 26 year old messanger working for a telecom company. And here's the experience from his own words:

I'd would just like to share my bonggang bonggang experience as the blog promo winner of Lexuality.


Maswerte tlga ako kasi bukod sa premyong masahe at libreng tiket na napanalunan ko ay masasabi kong personal ko nang nakahalubilo si Lex Bonife, napaka simple at maasikaso.

Sa konting panahon na kami'y nag-usap napagtanto ko kung gaano kasipag si LEX, malikhain at higit sa lahat ay mapagkumbaba. Nalaman ko rin sa kanya na dapat hindi natin ikukumpara ang ating sarili sa iba para hindi tayo ampalaya lagi sa buhay... dapat daw ay “ GO...lang nang GO.”.

At heto na nga GO na kami sa BOYS of BORA Massage experience ko...



Lance, one of the masseurs of Boys of Bora

 Bilang neophite sa ganitong lugar...lahat ng pre-orientation at negotiation skills ay si LEX na po ang umasikaso..Maraming pagpipilian sa kanilang mga masseurs...mayroong expert sa massage at meron namang expert sa extra careful massage at merong magaling in both massage at careful massage.....

At sa dami ng pagpipilian, personal choice (sexual instinct) pa din ang naging batayan ko sa aking pagpili at ito nga ay si Rudy… cute siya …chinito type…maamong mukha…katamtamang katawan…mga 5’5 ang height at kasing tangkad ko lang din….mabango naman siya inperness….makinis din at may kaputian din ang kanyang balat….Tahimik at magalang na masseurs si Rudy……sensitive sa kanyang mga paksang gusting pag -uusapan at marahil ako ang kanyang unang kliyente sa gabing yon.. Banayad at may angking kagalingan sa pagmamasahe si Rudy…bawat dampi at haplos ng kanyang mga kamay sa aking hubad na katawan ay napakasarap…para bagang ako’y nasa ulap…hindi ko rin mawari ang aking pakiramdam..excited ako sa bawat susunod na kaganapan …excited ako lalo na ng matapos na ang masahe at dumako na kami sa extra careful massage….hay…napakasarap….tumpak siya sa mga pangarap ko…bawat sandali ay napakahalina at kaaya-aya sa aking kaibuturan… umaasam ng kakaibang pananabik….at hindi ako nabigo sa aking mga pangarap….na nabigyan ng katuparan sa pamamagitan ng LEXUALITY.com

Salamat muli, Lex! Ito ang aking napakasayang karanasan bilang reader ng Lexuality .

Johnel C.

*****

Thanks Johnel C.,

I had a great time talking to you. I hope I gave you a memorable evening. I still owe you tickets to Laruang Lalake.

Ingat,

Lex

PS Thanks to Boys of Bora for making this treat possible. To schedule a massage from the "Boys of Bora" please call +6324330158 or text +639217745089

Thesis Thanks

Hi Sir Lex,

It's me Anthony. It's been almost two years since I've interviewed you for my thesis. Now I have earned my Bachelor's Degree and work as a college instructor in some university here in Cebu. Thanks a lot for the big, big help, Sir. And I'm sorry if it took me almost two years to say thank you. In between landing-a-job pressure and finding-that-job-struggle, I unconsciously forgot to do it. FAIL.

Again thank you Sir Lex for the help.

P.S. I got a 1.0 for my thesis. It must have really been something. You're an inspiration. :)


*****

Hi Anthony,

Congratulations for finishing your course in UP Cebu. And congratulations for an impressive mark on your thesis. Thank you for remembering me. I wish you luck.

Continue to shine as a gay man,

Lex

New Bath House

Hi Lex,

Just want to share with you and your readers a new bath house along West Ave., Quezon city. It's called Playroom. It's probably the smalles bath house in Manila and it just opened a few months ago. They are still on a soft opening so the wet floors are still being constructed. They have VIP rooms here that has its own private shower and toilet. The place is pretty small though so it could get a bit cramped. But it's worth the try.

Playroom is near Mr. Kebab at West Ave., Just enter the Slice & Dice driveway and you won't miss the place. If you get a room here, the manager can offer you a masseur from the neighboring "spartacus" massage at a discounted rate.

Hope your readers will enjoy it.

Manila Cruiser

*****

Hi Manila Cruiser,

Thanks for sharing this new place. I'm sure this will delight many of our readers.

Lex

Without Cuts

Actors Arjay Carreon and Marco Morales getting instructions
from filmmaker Joselito Altarejos

I haven't felt fear for a long time. Until a while ago when I faced the the panel of censors from the MTRCB. With a handful of frontal nudities, macho dancing scenes and a prolonged sex scene between Arjay Carreon and Marco Morales, I knew I was headed for an expensive and much-dreaded "X-rating" for our new film "Laruang Lalake"

After the review I was called inside the preview room. Inside, I was greeted by an elegant matron, a Catholic priest and a TV actress. My knees began to shake. And my stomach became uneasy.

Their eyes were tired and indifferent. They asked me to sit right next to the TV set where the director's cut of the film just played.

The matron said. "It's an R rating for me. Keep this cut. How about you, father?"

"R-rating din!", the priest declared without looking into my eyes.

"R", the TV actress stated.

I was overwhelmed with the good news. Not knowing what to say, i blurted "I love you!" to every board member.

Laraung Lalake is APPROVED WITHOUT CUTS.

That Mark Joseph

Ever since I met him at the gym about a year ago, I had been curious about how Mark Joseph looked like before when he was an actor as one of the leading names of the "pene-movies" generation in the Philippines. For the sake of the younger generation, "pene-movies" referred to films that had actual genital penetration that were popular in the 80's.

Let me share with you some screenshots from "Silip" (by Elwood Perez) featuring the actor who was famous for his size down there.

The "Bi" Confusion



Hairstylist Ricky Reyes personifies the "bakla"
in Mass Media



Here's an interesting comment about the confusion of the "bisexual" word as commonly used today in Manila:

i have to say this here lex but i really am beginning to hate that word - BI. it is the most abused word in the GLBT lingo. ang lalake pag takot na sabihin o aminin na bading siya, automatic yan, parang yes FM, ang ililabel niya sa sarili niya bi siya. so yung mga contestants ng mr posh walang bading, puro bi. eh lahat yan puro bayarang lalake sa boytoyforhire ni paris. and again, pagtatanungin mo sila ano ang orientation nila, sasabihin pa sayo straight sila kung makakalusot. pagna corner na, ang sagot, the most convenient answer in the gay world nowadays, bi ako in a major major way. i wonder what others will have to say to that.

Anonymous

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Hi Anonymous,

Allow me to offer my own speculation on how all this "bisexual" term confusion has happened. Before the mid-20th century, Filipinos categorized the queer men into two: one is the "bakla" or "binabae", which refers to men who dress up like women. The other term is "silahis", men who are into other men but are masculine in nature.

Ogie Diaz personifies the "silahis"

Now, here's where the confusion begins. "Silahis" may refer to any man (whether gay or bisexual) as long as they choose a masculine appearance. In simpler terms, Ricky Reyes in his red pants and make up is "bakla" and Ogie Diaz, in his jeans and shirts, and the fact that he has a wife despite of his publicly "gay persona" is "silahis" following this categories.

 

So, when the term homosexual and bisexual permeated our culture, they simply became a synonym of our existing terms. Homosexuality conveniently took the seat of "bakla" and bisexuality became "silahis". In this case, the homo/bi - sexual concepts became "filipinized".

Ergo, in Manila, if a man claims to be "bi", oftentimes, he means, he is silahis. He prefers masculine clothes, and may or may not be attracted to the opposite sex.

Lex

Humiliated Gay Men

Last week, the Queeriosity Bath House along FB Harrison was raided by the police. According to my research, the bath house was raided because there were permits that they failed to renew. There was also a naked show happening that night which aggravated their case.

Now, here's the sickening part of it. While the raid was going on, crowds have gathered outside of the bath house which was near a slum area. When the clients were forced to board the jeepneys rented by the police, the crowds started jeering and shouting insults at our gay brothers.

What a sick society we live in.