Saturday, September 11, 2010
Gay Identity Issues at the Office
I am an avid fan of your site. I am glad that there is someone like you to understand our needs whether we are gay/bi sexual/or trippers. I am a young professional and an achiever as they say and i am very discreet. Nobody knows that I am like this, gay. Though being discreet doesn’t prohibit me satisfy my sexual needs.
I work for one of the top companies here in the Philippines, i am a supervisor and sometimes, get indecent proposals from our clients. But i refuse to do it with then. When I watch your films, I even wear caps and shades in entering the cinema so that no one would recognize me.
Then, a manager had a crush on me and turned him down and now, he has been looking for ways to set me up. Until he saw me watching your movies and i told him that i saw you once and you were introduced. i think that was during the pulupot night..Right now, i am up for promotion and the issue has blown out of proportion.
Many people in the office had no issues with my sexual identity. But there is one female who has been constantly pulling me down, claiming that i am immoral as i support senseless films and i bring that attitude to work. I find it unfair that she has to use my sexual preference to criticize my work attitude.
They are all hypocrites. They spread rumors about different people in the office. They say that "gays", bisexuals are immoral! i saw her awhile ago when i went to the main branch, she is pregnant for 2 months and her husband has been in Dubai for a year. My question is, who is the father of the baby? who is immoral? she just kept quiet. I just told her to stop saying bad things to people because she is already pregnant, give what is due to the baby, not her selfish scheme to ruin others for her to move up.
Revenge comes in the sweetest package! But honestly, i wish well for the baby because she is out of this.
i hope you share your opinion on this.
Now, you have turned me into your fan. I admire you for standing up for your sexual identity. And I admire you for confronting your bitch of an officemate for claiming that you bring "immorality" into your workplace just because you are gay.
May you have all the success that you deserve. And continue to shine as a gay man.