Waiting for the Waiters Part 2

Part 2

Let's continue the letter of "Bon" about his grand scheme to "taste" a bunch of good looking waiters in from his favorite resto:

...but when I tried to ask him again, he'd make "bawi" and say "Joke lang." However, the context of this comment was when we were talking about the infamous pick-up girls of Padi's Point.


The thing now is, I feel like pushing the envelope a little bit further next time. The other night, we were a little drunk and I was alreadyso tempted to make a move. However, what makes me hesitant is that as a customer and as a professional, these waiters seem to have so much respect for me, that even when we are in the midst of a drinking session, they'd still prefer to address me with "Sir...". If I make a move over the weekend, I'd be risking so many things, if you know what I mean. Though I am so not into the relationship thing (gusto ko lang talaga matikman ang iba sa kanila tapos barkada lang ulit) and given some of the waiters' previous sexual encounters with gay men, I also get a feeling that it won't be too difficult to you know...

Next week, I'm planning to bring XXX DVD's and watch these films with them while drinking sa house. O di ba ang dali na? Still, there's a part of me that's hesitant.

Before you react, I guess I also have a few questions:

In spite of my being discreet, do you think may naaamoy din sila?

Is it possible to mess around with a few of them and still be casual friends? My fear is that after that, they'd start avoiding me.

What can you say about my plan next weekend? Feasible ba or medyo dangerous?

Thanks for your time and I do hope to hear from you. Thanks

Bon

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Hi Bon,
 
Thanks for sharing this exciting situation that you are in right now. My instinct tells me that if you plan to experience a bunch of straight men, it's always easier and safer to do the seduction one by one instead of setting up one hot evening for all of them  although the latter sounds more exciting.
 
The waiters being co-workers may have more sexual  inhibitions if they are together. So the probability of getting them in one seductive stroke is lesser than planning one scheme for every person.
 
If the waiters have been exposed to gay sex, most likely they know very well your intention so there's no need to be too guarded with your interactions with them.
 
And yes, with Pinoy straight men, they could always drop their pants for you and you could always remain friends.
 
Have fun!
 
Lex