While my new acquaintance (from the "beware of sex" post) was sharing the details of the crime committed by a fellow gay man, some of my gay friends volunteered some safety information when hooking up with other men in public places. Here are some very useful tips on this situation:
* Beware of Men who are over eager to come with you. You should feel much safer if you are the one who pursued the guy. Don't be flattered by a stranger's attention.
* If you catch yourself unzipping his pants and you find the penis of your new sex partner flaccid, chances are, he is thinking of other things and that could be committing a crime against you.